
Oscar Wilde's Tomb
As an annoying teenager, I liked the idea of Oscar Wilde. I enjoyed the chirpy rhythm of his dialogue in the mouths of local actors. I liked his daydreamy eyes. It wasn’t a covert until a pretentious professor forced me to read Oscar’s only novel, The Picture of Dorian Gray, in a reeeeeally boring Brit Lit course. I realized that Oscar and I are kindred sarcasm spirits and thus began the love affair. I’m by no means alone. Even today, 111 years after his untimely death, his gravesite looks more like a nightclub than a tomb. Women and men like to leave kisses upon his epitaph and liquor for his spirit.
If you haven’t considered loving Oscar Wilde, here are some quotations to change your mind:
“There is no sin except stupidity.”
“It is absurd to divide people into good and bad. People are either charming or tedious.”
“I never travel without my diary. One should always have something sensational to read on the train.”
“If you are not too long, I will wait here for you all my life.”
“A dreamer is one who can only find his way by moonlight, and his punishment is that he sees the dawn before the rest of the world.”
“A man who does not think for himself does not think at all.”
“A man’s face is his autobiography. A woman’s face is her work of fiction.”
“A true friend stabs you in the front.”
“Consistency is the last refuge of the unimaginative.”
“Every saint has a past and every sinner has a future.”

Tomb in Père Lachaise Cemetery in Paris, France.


Oscar's statue in Dublin's Merrion Square park
